This one is coming fresh from the 2025 Gimli international film festival in Manitoba, Canada.
Loveable is a simple story about a single mother hoping to find love again. In comes Sigmund with a little bit of mystery, a little bit sexy, so lovable. Maria dives all in, hook, line, and sinker. 'In my life oh you fish take all of me' like a loyal disciple she fishes Sigmund out of the sea.
A simple tale but there's a whole lot of life lessons to be gained from this one. Thank you for joining us once again and enjoy reading through the life lessons listed.
- Reincarnation by Multiplication
At first sight of Sigmund, Maria gets a weird feeling about who he is, or maybe she was just ovulating (Lol). 'I feel I know you' she says. She feels connected to him like they've meant before. In reality, we are all connected. We are all one huge family proceeding through time by reincarnation and multiplication. The internet makes it more obvious. There are websites where you can search for your doppelganger. Avid readers of this blog would be familiar with this concept of sameness or different versions of a spiritual entity in different physical forms. We are all descendants of the twelve or thirteen queens (see eBook section).
- Relationship Pressure
Maria under pressure to keep love that she's finally found becomes possessive. She demands more time from Sigmund, scolding him for making a decision without consulting her. She forgets it took her some time to find him after she first meant him. She forgets he had a life of his own without her. Sigmund on the other hand, like everyman, is just satisfied with satisfying his little Thomas. He feels like his doing her a favor for being her sexual partner. Screams turn to shove in one scene, and the viewers are reminded of how easily a loving relationship can become violent and abusive.
Learning to be Independent before a relationship is a major key. Independent people fare better at relationships because they do not smother their partners. Humans are naturally designed to seek freedom and even at the marriage counsellor's office, Sigmund complains that he has no latitude, no space in the relationship.
- Teenage Tantrums
Maria's teenage daughter is upset when Maria visits her at school. Like most teenagers, she's ashamed of her parent. We are not exactly sure why teenage age is associated with rebelliousness, and even though it might be based on the innate human trait to be free, its still a bit suspicious. What if most teenagers are controlled by spiritual bonds to reject parental advice as a misdirection that exposing them to exploitative social ills. Social ills like the ones described in our review of the movie 'Four Good Days'. Empathy is a wise approach to overcoming such teenage rebelliousness. We witness a perfect example of empathy when Maria accepts and affirms her daughter's claims that she would be better off living at her fathers. This empathetic approach wins her daughters heart. Yeah, love is still the strongest feeling in the world.
- Low Self-esteem
Maria is so desperate and vulnerable that she slaps herself multiple times in public, demeaning herself and begging Sigmund to come back into her life. An attitude that is more alarming to Sigmund than reconciling. Desperation is intensified by the uncanny methods used by most fraternities, religions, and cultures to entrap and enslave our loving women. Systems designed to sustain the destruction of love and the cheating of love. A woman humiliated and abused develops a low opinion of herself, and opinion so low she accepts to be punched and slapped even when she's done nothing wrong. I weep for my women, I weep that my heart can't stop loving. It hurts... Remember even money runs from those who are too desperate to get it.
- Be a Surplus not a Burden
Independent people don't sulk. Even the marriage counsellor counsels Maria on dropping her baggage and being more honest with Sigmund. I mean, like, how does a young man relate to an enslaving relationships burdened by kids. Its enough to be cheated out of love, adding a whole family without passing through the stages of building one is a lot to take in for a guy just hoping for sexual pleasure. Its a painful realization to see women join the system to call fools, fools, because in truth the fools represent the independence of women or female emancipation. Many women come with enslaving love to ensnare the ignorant, and this is demoralizing to me. Despite all my self-prep, talk, and motivation to stay true to love, I kind of lost it, when I realized women also think am a fool. Love crowned by marriage should be a land of surplus with kids as an added joy, rather than a struggle to stay afloat, a sustained strife that distracts the honest loving men from the bitter truth. The truth is bitter, but like every bitter pill, its likely to make you feel better.
- The Guilt
Maria can't explain to the counsellor why she harbors a subtle or latent attitude to make Sigmund feel bad. She expresses this through withdrawal, turning away during intimate moments including sex. Isn't it sad that most women are discreetly disappointed by the 'loving fools'? A sought of 'why the hell don't you know about it' kind of feeling. A guilty feeling of giving a man less than what he's truly worth. Maria feels like she's not really being good to Sigmund, like she's being selfish. Her selfishness is affirmed by her mother when she goes visiting and seats in her favorite dining chair. A spot requiring the least contribution to errands or proceedings at the dinner table. Oh don't you just hate the 'pass me the salt, pass me the pepper' lazy sibling?
Those who are wise can't honestly judge Maria, because like most young women she has been compelled by bonds to give her best self to those who only seek to exploit it. May we find forgiveness and reconciliation as we learn to respect the rights of every human. We are after all one big family.
Thank you for taking the time to read through this issue of your favorite life lessons blog. Lets know what you think in the comments section. If you haven't seen this movie you can find it on this link: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt26629652/
Get more details about the Gimli International Film Festival on the official website: https://www.gimlifilm.com/
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